When you are leading, a few points are important to bear in mind:
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Which dance Style does your Partner dance? Cuban in circle motion
or Cross-body-lead in line? (DON'T mix the two styles together; this
makes it really hard for the lady to follow, because for her the following
techniques in the two different styles are almost the opposite.)
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When you're dancing with a Partner, your connection with her is
the most important thing. "Open break" is often a good way
to test whether your Partner has a good "hand connection"
to you or not. Don't just go on the floor and start all the fancy
moves away, hold her and go around in Basis Position a few times and
do a couple of open breaks to see where the connection level is.
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What is her level? Don't just get on the dance floor and start practicing
your difficult, complicated moves away. Starting off with just a few
basis moves and gradually more.
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When you're leading, keep your shoulder relax at all time, especially
if you've to raise her hand. You'd be amaze how much better you could
lead and how much better she would follow, because when you raise
your shoulder during the lead, you would raise hers too, and it would
make her block the figure that you want to lead.
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During leading, you shouldn't need to use your thumb all the time,
which can really HURT!! You will do that likely because, you feel
she is "slipping away"; so, use more of a "hook"
technique with your fingers. There's also many tricks to hold her
without crabbing and still remain the connection with her. Ask your
Instructor how.
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Remember the lady follows your hand only! This is almost the only
connection you have with her during a "Partner Work". If
you push or tear too hard, she is going to go off balance.
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If you don't want the lady to turn, keep your hands low. Many women
are confused and turn by themselves as soon as you raise your hand.
(That shouldn't be the case, if she has the follow technique intact.)
By bear this in mind, might help you to "smoother" the lead.
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You don't need a million moves to impress her! It's also nice from
time to time just to hold her. Just make sure you smile and look at
her in the eyes. (She would remember you more and likely dancing with
you again. :)
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Ask any one given female Salsera, I bet almost all of them would
agree, they would prefer a Salsero who knows less moves but leads
well then someone try to make many moves that are not clear or even
worst, ending hurting them all the times! (guess that's works both
way. A Salsero would prefer a lady dance less "Stylish"
but follow well, instead of always let their Styling get in the way..!)
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Try not to be too concern just about the figure. You're not going
to impress her if you only concentrate at the "move" and
not her, no one likes to be a "practice object", and that's
most likely how she would feel.
"Keep your eyes on him!" Yes, lady, that will make you
dance better too.
This way, you can response accordingly when he for example wants both
hands all of a sudden. All of your turning comes with "spotting"
technique too, ask your instructors how to do it properly.
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Keep your weight at the ball part of your feet at all time. As a
dancer, we were trained always to use the ball part of our feet to
dance. This will make you dance better, and much less chance to hurt
someone else especially when it's crowded on the dance floor. This
way, when you "land", your weight is already in the ball
part of the foot first and not with the hill. (Especially when you're
wearing a high-hill!) And Ladies, keep you foot always LOW on the
ground, don't go step around with your hill in the air anytime.
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Don't "think" the moves, "feel" the moves!!
He is the one who has to study, make decision, how and when to do
what. Should you be confused with his lead, just make sure you keep
your basis steps intact at all time!
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Many "entrance" of the figures and combinations are very
similar which is why more so, you should concentrate more on his hand
and not the figure itself. Remember the only connection your have
with him is through his hand, this is also why, you've to maintain
your upper body "calm", so that you can feel and follow
his hand at all time.
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Don't swing your arm all over the place, let him swing yours!! Many
ladies think, "hands up" is just part of the styling, and
they ended up doing it all the times. If you do this at the wrong
moment, you might give your partner an "black eye" or your
hands are simply in the way of the move. Good dancers "styling"
in the appropriate moment and never conflicted with the guys leading.
Ask your instructor with some standard rules, when and how.
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Since the only connection you have with him is through his hand.
Your "hand-hold" technique obviously is very important.
(It's hard to put these techniques down on writing!!) Ask your instructor
how to do it properly. Having someone just to tell you, "you're
too hard", "too soft" is not going to help you. They
have to be able to show you HOW to do it.
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If a figure happens to be "nothing for you to do", don't
just stand there; once again, make sure you keep your weight always
on the "correct" foot at the "correct" time (meaning,
your basis steps. R.L.R, L.R.L. not R.LRL or simply just stand there...)
Therefore you're always prepare for the next move to come. Concentrate
more at your basis steps and weight change techniques. This will help
you become a better follower too!
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